I work with all couples including and not limited to siblings, adult child and parent, business partners as well as couples in romantic relationships.

 

Most of us desire to be our fullest selves within a relationship. When this seems impossible, we feel we have two equally poor options: either give up an essential part of ourselves and maintain the relationship or give up the relationship and be alone.  While I believe that we make adjustments in relationships, we don't need to change who we essentially are.

 

Our society does not approve of couples arguing, and as a result, unresolved disagreements with our partner can cause pain and shame.  I believe it is unrealistic to expect couples not to have conflict.  There is good reason for the conflict.  I regard it with respect.  My experience has shown that greater intimacy, confidence and relief can result from exploring and understanding conflict.

 

We'll explore each partner’s communication style and how it impacts the relationship.  Often, neither party feels understood by the other or is feeling transgressed. I can help each person feel more understood and bring awareness to the deeper meaning behind what may seem like silly arguments.